Your Emotional Healing Coach

Date someone who actually LIKES YOU.

When you start moving intentionally and slowly in dating, you realise that a lot of people don’t actually mean what they say, or say what they mean.

Being emotionally available can still be a trauma response especially with an avoidant.

I saw a post that said “A situationship is when they don’t like you enough to commit and you don’t like yourself enough to leave.” If that ain’t the truth. It’s also “I kept trying to become the kind of person who doesn’t need much… so I wouldn’t lose what little I had”

Ghosting is insidious bc it’s deliberate negligence & this is why I’ll never get ppl who ghost bc to do it, you have to decide that someone else’s confusion pain & self doubt are an acceptable cost for your own comfort.